THE QUEENDOM

Come Exhausted. Leave             

The 12-month sanctuary for the woman who’s done performing strength, chasing peace, or settling for love that doesn’t meet her where she is.

In The Queendom, you will reclaim your softness, restore your capacity for love, and reign in every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.

Exalted.

Not another coaching program. A coronation.

You’ve built the résumé.
You’ve held the family down.
You’ve led the room, the team, the vision.
And yet… in the quiet moments, you wonder:

Who’s holding me?

Where do I go to be poured into, not just pulled from?

What would it feel like to lead from wholeness instead of hustle?

Maybe you’re performing peace while your soul is stuck in survival mode.

Maybe you’re tired of craving softness in a world that only rewards strength.

Maybe you’ve made “strength” your signature — but deep down, you know it’s time for a change.




This isn’t about doing more.

 It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you to shrink.

Whether you’re…

Rebuilding after burnout

Shedding old patterns

Standing at the edge of a new version of yourself




Something deep inside is whispering: There has to be more than this.

And you’re right.

I’ve faced heartbreak, breakdowns, disappointments that left me hollow.

I tried every affirmation, meditation, and self-help hack — and still, the ache stayed.

So I went back to my roots.

I was raised and nurtured by a powerful coven of matriarchs. Women whose love and wisdom ran deeper than any modern trend.

I know this because I’ve been there

My story

Grandma’s Hands:

My grandmother healed — through her hands, her heart, her food, her presence, and her work.

She was a life-giver in every sense, bringing life into the world hundreds of times — both as a mother of 11 and as a maternity nurse for over 30 years.

Her love was medicine. Her touch was restoration. Her presence was peace.

I carry her name and her legacy. Healing is not just what I do — it is my divine gift, my power, and my passion.

And it’s the same love, wisdom, and healing energy I pour into The Queendom.

The Queendom is not a course you binge and forget.

It’s not a Facebook group you barely visit.

It’s a living, breathing sanctuary for women who lead — where we combine:

Magic + Method (your energy + your strategy)


Spirit + Strategy (deep healing + intentional action)


Softness + Sovereignty + Support (because you can have all three)


Power + Pleasure + Purpose (and you should never have to choose)


The Queendom is for you if you:

Are ready to be loved in all forms — by yourself, by others, by life itself


Want pleasure, power, and peace without apology


Are done wearing strength as armor


Know healthy relationships are the true currency of life


Want to heal, lead, and love from your most authentic self


It’s NOT For you if:

If you want to chase a bag but never address your inner wealth, demonize men, stay stuck in trauma, or use avoidance as protection — this is not your palace

When you enter, you’ll choose your throne:

Royal — The Personal Path

Self-worth, sacred self-care, mindset mastery, deep healing rituals.

 The Queendom Paths

Reign — The Partnership Path

Love identity, sensual magnetism, effortless attraction, and relationship mastery.

Rule — The Sovereign Path

Integration of self, love, and legacy into a life of full alignment.

12 Months of Membership (commitment required)

Live Group Coaching Calls every month

Multiple Signature Courses

Recorded Masterclasses & Workshops

The Royal Ritual Bank — affirmations, spiritual baths, healing practices

Community Support & Sisterhood that feels like home

What's Included

From “pick me” patterns to divine feminine power.

From surviving to deeply thriving.

From earning your crown to wearing it.

Lead with love

Live in your softness without losing your strength

Attract what you desire without chasing it




This is the space where you will…

Build relationships that feel healthy, passionate, and safe


12 monthly Payments of

$250/month for 12 months

One Payment of

$2,500 Paid in Full

Two ways to enter the palace:

$250

$2,500

KIND WORDS

Not in the negative way we’ve grown to know it as—it was learning to be centered in myself in my world and the real meaning of self care.

I’ve established boundaries with myself and others, let go of the myth that I wasn’t enough unless I was needed, and I now show up for myself in spaces I once couldn’t have imagined being in. I recognized that my power shifts rooms. I’m no longer denying my legacy or leadership.

— Felicia Martin, Certified Project Manager & Operations Leader

“I call this my main character era. One of the greatest gifts Fila gave me was the true definition of self centered.”

I’m loving every part of me! Fila showed me I get to be soft, I get to wear pink, and in loving me—I get to be loved on in all the ways I want and deserve.

Working with Fila changed my life forever. In her intuitiveness, nurturing, realness, love, and willingness to hold space for women that look like her, Fila cracked me open to let the light shine in—only the way Fila can do it. I got that Bruce Leroy glow now, chile, and with my arms and heart wide open—I finally welcome true love.

Over the years, she skillfully guided me through some of my most complex challenges with a perfect blend of empathy, insight, and encouragement. Through her support, I’ve reached a place of emotional resilience and healthy relational balance I once only dreamed possible.

—Dr. Jennifer Caldwell, Assistant Professor & Public Health Genomics Lab Director, Pennington-LSU

“I cannot overstate how deeply transformative working with Fila has been for me.”

Working with Fila as my life coach for years was truly transformative. She held space for me—listening deeply, asking the right questions, and helping me reframe patterns that were holding me back. Under her guidance, I began prioritizing self-care in sincere and sustainable ways—whether through setting thoughtful boundaries, practicing mindfulness, or honoring my own needs unashamedly. Because of her support, I now show up more grounded, authentic, and balanced—in my personal life and in my work.

I first heard her speak on a panel in 2019 and felt an instant connection. I thought we’d work together as peers—but instead, she became the coach who helped me transform my mindset, realign with my purpose, and reconnect with my femininity.

As a Black Caribbean woman, I was taught that hard work equaled success. But through The Queendom, I realized I had been operating from a place of survival. Fila helped me shift into abundance, return to my true essence, and soften so I could receive what is divinely mine.

From 1:1 sessions to powerful group experiences, being part of The Queendom has been one of the best investments I’ve ever made. Fila didn’t just help me grow—she helped me come home to myself.

— Shoareged Phillpotts, Nonprofit Executive Director & Licensed Therapist

“Working with Fila was the blessing I didn’t know I needed.”

Her program continues to help me tap into my own power so I can continue to rise to be the best version of myself in every aspect of my life.

I am truly honored to be one of her clients.

— Dr. Eberenne Igbokwe, DO

“Working with Fila has and continues to be life changing. She challenges me to grow in ways that can be difficult but have ALWAYS been beneficial."

This is not a program you “try.”

It’s a decision to change the way you live, love, and lead — forever.

If you’re ready to reign, rule, and live royally…

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